Extreme polarization, disunity, anger, rioting, violence and overall civil unrest have escalated in America at an alarming rate over the past decade. The information age and the rapid rise of social media networks have contributed to these negative trends by increasing the dissemination of information and by facilitating the erosion of credibility among information producers. Anyone can present himself as an expert and spread false information, "fake news", or misleading opinions without accountability.
Media producers profit more by publishing sensational stories with click-bait titles than they do by publishing thoughtful insights and verified facts. Smart phones and social media saturate users with so much information 24/7 that few have the time or patience to read media that is more than 500 words or that requires in-depth thought, so the media is mostly dumbed-down to emotional sound bites that make consumers FEEL intense emotions without having to think much at all. Opinions and talking points are virtually absorbed by osmosis, and once those opinions are established, social media intensifies those opinions through algorithms that feed consumers only what reinforces those opinions. This confirmation bias closes minds and hearts to differing perspectives. This refusal to consider or evaluate opposing opinions has turned some of America's most elite universities, where the marketplace of ideas once fueled innovative thought and mutual understanding, into censorship zones where only the most liberal philosophies are permitted a voice. Polarization is a natural outcome of a refusal to expose oneself to opposing viewpoints. Since no persuasive arguments or thoughtful defenses are needed to support a common opinion in such censored environments, any attempt by an outsider to engage in meaningful dialogue or respectful debate is immediately shut down by resorting to name calling ("hater", "bigot", "sexist", or any combination of vulgar expletives) or by simply disengaging. Those who refuse to conform to this herd mentality have been persecuted, whether by exclusion, fines, bullying, or violence.
Social media has also removed the filter that face-to-face interactions
provide, emboldening users to say online what they would never say in
person. Sociologists consider social media to be a primary contributor to the problems of isolation, depression, low self-esteem, and the inability of many Millennials and heavy media users to develop meaningful face-to-face relationships with others. Strong interpersonal relationships are the glue that unites a society, so the less we relate to one another in real life, the less peace and unity we will experience overall.
These tensions have especially intensified since the rise of Black Lives Matter which encouraged the killing of police officers simply because of their profession. Then when Hillary did not win the election as expected, the rioting began again, especially among entitled young people who do not know how to handle disappointment because their hovering parents never let them fail, and their teachers and coaches gave every kid an award or a trophy. The media certainly paints a grim picture of the current state of the nation with angry, violent, grieving, hysterical Americans acting as though the world has ended.
With sincere concern for the emotionally distraught, I must point out that none of us, regardless of
political or religious affiliation, should ever overreact to anything the
media presents as emotionally charged click bait, especially when it is void of
accurate facts or specifics. The angrier and more emotional Americans
become, the more the media profits. Some media outlets have been caught flat out lying to perpetuate the negative emotions that are so
profitable for them.
To those tempted to hysteria, consider how much
your heart and blood pressure, your doctors, and everyone around
you would thank you if would simply ignore the exaggerated claims until
you have the facts
and can understand the full context. Just as wise parents ignore their
toddlers when they throw
temper tantrums for no reason, those in authority will discount all
whining and protesting done in ignorance.
Truly,
unjustified anger serves no constructive purpose, but if left
unchecked, can easily turn into bitterness that grows to destroy the one
who harbors it. (
Ecclesiastes 7:9,
Proverbs 16:32,
Ephesians 4:26-31,
James 1:19-20, ,
Colossians 3:8,
James 4:1-2)
"Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land." (Psalm 37:8-9)
The Biblical account of Jacob and Esau points out how quickly anger, even if sparked by legitimate injustice, can grow into hatred that morphs into psychopathic behavior. Esau went from anger to hatred to plotting to murder his brother in a very short time period.
(Genesis 27:41) Esau is not unlike many Americans. Ever since Trump's inauguration, the news has been filled with examples of angry insults,
violent protests,
Madonna's desire to bomb the White House, individual
threats to assassinate Trump, over
12,000 tweets calling for Trump's assassination, and
an extremely profane speech at a Black Lives Matter protest calling for killings across the White House and beyond. The anger in America is out of control, and it is completely unjustified. When have any of these angry protestors had personal interactions with Trump in which Trump hurt them in such a way as to justify the death sentence? Esau could at least point out that Jacob had tricked him out of his birthright and out of his father's blessing, yet God's complete disapproval of Esau's hatred is clear, for the Hebrew word used to describe Esau's hatred of Jacob is the same root word from which the name Satan is derived.

When we are personally angry and frustrated or when our nation is filled with hostility and division, we must stop reacting emotionally and start thinking critically. We must carefully consider not only what is true in any situation (instead of what the media wants us to believe), but even more importantly, we need to identify the true source for our anger. We can probably all agree that the technological age and the rise of social media have made the tensions worse, but most would place the blame on the person at whom their hatred is directed. Republicans blamed Obama. Obama blamed Bush. Black Lives Matter
blamed police officers of any color. Now the blame for so much division and instability in America is being collectively placed on
Trump and his supporters.
While the loudest protestors insist that Trump is the source of their angst, God's word offers a different answer.
What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. (James 4:1-2a)
People are angry because they did not get what they expected or wanted. Entitled people do not know how to handle disappointment. They believe all the negative media published to incite fear and cannot bring themselves to accept any other scenario than the one they demand or to hope that their worst fears will not be realized. When Obama was elected, conservatives wrestled with the same feelings of disappointment, fear, and despair for the same reason. They did not get what they wanted, but they had to accept the truth for what it is and move forward with faith in God and without fear of man.
Our refusal to let go of bitterness, fear, and resentment is also rooted within ourselves. Fear is the absence of faith.
We will never be at peace as long as we refuse to trust in the sovereignty and goodness of God.
"I am deeply persuaded that the primary reason we complain,
grumble, and accuse is because the sovereignty of God doesn’t rule in
our heart." - Paul David Tripp
In a devotional entitled, "The Sovereignty of Words" (read it
here), Paul David Tripp describes the pure, edifying, peaceful speech that flows out of a heart steadfastly ruled by God's sovereignty, no matter what trials may come. I have quoted a portion from Tripp's post below.
"When people frustrate us, when our plans are thwarted, and when suffering
enters our door, our lips dispense words laced with anger, bitterness,
envy, doubt, confusion, and fear. All of these emotions are given room
to grow when there is a void of rich understanding and belief in the
sovereignty of God.
We
have forgotten that God’s dominion is an eternal dominion and he does
as he pleases (Daniel 4:34-35). We don’t remind ourselves that his
judgements are unsearchable and his ways inscrutable (Romans 11:33). We
have neglected to meditate on the truths that God rules over the
specific details of our lives for his glory and our good (Acts 17:26-27,
Ephesians 1:4-6, 20-22 and many more)."
Entitlement thinking says, "You owe me. Give me what I deserve." God's word, on the other hand, teaches us that none of us is righteous (
Romans 3: 9-20), and what we truly deserve is death (
Romans 6:23).
Mercy is not getting what we deserve. Grace is getting what we do not deserve. Jesus died to save us from the eternal death we deserve and to give us what we could never earn or merit on our own (forgiveness, purification, a personal relationship with Him, and eternal life with Him in Heaven). Through Christ's death on our behalf on the cross, He offers both mercy and grace to all who will believe and put their trust in Him as Lord over their lives.
20 When you were slaves to sin, you were free from the control of righteousness. 21 What benefit did you reap at that time from the things you are now ashamed of? Those things result in death! 22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Romans 6:20-23).
Entitlement thinking leaves no room for grace, so let us humble ourselves before the Lord, acknowledging how much we have fallen short of His perfect standard.
(Romans 3: 9-20)
"For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned." (Romans 12:3)
Fear leaves no room for hope, joy, or peace.
Replace fear with faith and love. (
Deuteronomy 1:21, Deuteronomy 3:2, Deuteronomy 3:22, Deuteronomy 10:12, Deuteronomy 20:3, Joshua 8:1, Joshua 10:8, Judges 6:23, Psalm 23:4, Psalm 91:5, Psalm 46:2, Proverbs 19:23, Isaiah 41:10-14, Isaiah 43:5, Isaiah 44:8, Isaiah 54:14, Isaiah 57:11, 1 John 4:18, and more...
"The Lord is on my side; I will not fear. What can man do to me?"
(Psalm 118:6)
Deception leaves no room for truth or peace. So let us throw off our old ways of thinking and think Biblically with a sound mind and an earnest desire for God's whole truth and perfect wisdom.
Instead of harboring bitterness, we must forgive as Christ forgives His followers.
"For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15)
Ephesians 4 provides great instructions on how to curb our anger and fear in such uncertain times, but it requires a willingness and a commitment to growing in maturity and unity.
"As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. 2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. 4 There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.
7 But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it....
...11 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.
14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. 15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. 16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work....
...22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23 to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24 and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. 25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."